How’s your relationship going? How long you’ve been together? If your relationship lasts longer and you never stop arguing, that would be very alarming. Out of anger and frustrations, you will then have a big fight. When it comes to that, you seem to be fighting two things that most couples keep fighting. It’s intimacy and money.
Money serves to be the most common grounds for couples to always a big fight. Intimacy plays the same role in marriage. These two factors dramatically affect the relationships of two people who started their relationships with love, care, and devotion.
The biggest question is, why money serves to be the biggest problem in many couples? If going back to what the relationship started is m, money is not the issue at all. All they want from the start is to love each other after they have each other, things turn out into such a big mess because of money. What kind of change it is. It is expected for them to live harmoniously, but things are not according to what they wanted from the start of the relationship because of money matters.
Yes, we cannot deny the fact that we need money for survival, hence without cash, we cannot survive for everything we need like food, water, shelter, clothing needs money to get them. Those are the basic needs of people; thus, a shortage of supply with those needs will make people annoyed and mad. But things can sort out if you will only make some amendments with your partner on the best moves you two can do to make money, not an issue in your relationship.
The money would give so much value to your relationship if you were going to work on it as a team, not an opponent. Your relationship is not a competition that there’s someone who will win, but teamwork, working efforts to make things better, and things will work out according to your goals when you were started. To love each other in a way.
If and if couples have that vital connection to each other, things will work out, and money will not be an issue for couples and not become the biggest problem in each relationship. Cash is such a little value that people allows to navigate their entire relationship and allows it to ruin what is started so good to love. Money issues will cover couples’ possibilities to get going, making the relationship meaningful, and worth fighting for. Others do give up all because of money. Do not allow money to do it in your relationship; after all, love is so powerful over money. Love will conquer all the problems in the world.